While
viewing Saving Face, I didn’t
immediately make a connection with The
House is Black. But now that it’s been mentioned, I can see a few
similarities between the two films. I recall discussing how the lepers in the
colony in The House is Black were trapped within the colony, unable to leave. And
in Saving Face, it’s kind of like the
women were trapped behind their acid burns, and the only way to escape from
that was through the plastic surgeon and also maybe through the lawsuits. I
really was so happy that the new Pakistani law was enforced when that women won
the case against he husband. That was such a huge turning point that will
hopefully help the decline of these attacks. But it’s so clear in both the
movies that these people care deeply about what they look like. The victims of
the acid attacks were desperate to have a procedure to correct their face and
many of them expressed that the attack “has ruined their life.” It may be a
little different for the lepers in the colony, but we still saw them decorating
themselves with fingernail polish and brushing hair to look good. I could see
that more with the women than with the men.
I found the
comparison of acid attacks and the U.S. rape epidemic very interesting. It also
kind of broke my heart. Most times, we interact with people who’ve been raped
or sexually abused without even realizing it. I happen to be one of those
people. It’s definitely not as obvious as the acid burns and scars that the
women wear daily, unless of course, the rape results in a pregnancy. But even
then people probably wouldn’t primarily suspect rape. Now I don’t know how easy
it is for victims of rape to press charges and win a case in the United States,
but if it’s anything like the system in Pakistan up until the change of laws,
then that’s a real tragedy. But whether it’s rape or acid attacks, I will never
be able to understand why people do these things to one another.
On a note completely aside from the previous, I found it cool that I was able to talk to my dad about this. He had previously seen Saving Face on HBO last year. It was cool that I was able to enlighten my parents and discuss what we discuss in class every week. I don't know, it was a different experience for me, and very interesting to hear their reactions and opinions. I did really like the film, though. It was well made and like the girl in our class who appreciated the happy ending, I very much did too.
On a note completely aside from the previous, I found it cool that I was able to talk to my dad about this. He had previously seen Saving Face on HBO last year. It was cool that I was able to enlighten my parents and discuss what we discuss in class every week. I don't know, it was a different experience for me, and very interesting to hear their reactions and opinions. I did really like the film, though. It was well made and like the girl in our class who appreciated the happy ending, I very much did too.
Ally,
ReplyDeleteWhat a really beautiful, brave post. I, too, in commenting on another student's post thought out loud about the difference between being visibly marked by a perpetrator versus being invisibly marked by a perpetrator.
When something is visible, I feel that more attention is paid to the crime, but maybe I am completely wrong. I also think of those veterans who suffer from PTSD and how I've heard an interview with one veteran saying that he wished he'd had a leg blown off, or something that was more visible.
Arg.
More later, and, as always, thank you for your words,
Spring
I definitely agree that these people from both films care deeply about their physical forms. I remember a quote from one of the women in "Saving Face;" I believe she said, "I will never again be as God made me." And your connection with victims of rape is a good one. Both acid attacks and sexual attacks leave permanent marks on the victim and they can never be the person they once were mentally or physically. The fact that another human has violated their person is mentally and emotionally traumatizing.
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